Many of us who are currently in relationships all across Australia often find ourselves looking at other couples and wondering what is their secret of success. They seem incredibly happy and very much in love and so we want this same experience to happen to us every single day. Many people will try to provide you with answers and for the most part, it is good advice but at the end of all of this, there is no avoiding the fact that a relationship cannot be successful unless the couple are enjoying a healthy sexual relationship.
These same couples have no qualms about purchasing some sexual aids for the bedroom and so they have a healthy amount of dildos in many shapes and sizes to pleasure each other. This is one of the secrets to a good sexual relationship and there are many more. If you would like to find out more in an attempt to try to improve your current relationship then the following might be able to help.
- You need to communicate openly – If there is something that you want to try between the sheets then it is no good keeping it to yourself in the hope that your partner might want to do exactly the same thing someday. You need to be open and honest about what your sexual desires are but also point out what your boundaries consist of as well. In a new relationship, it would make sense that you would want to ask questions about contraception and their sexual past.
- Strong relationships need respect – Just don’t assume that your partner wants to engage in sex with you just because they are in a relationship with you. You also shouldn’t push your agenda onto them with regards to the sexual activities that you would like to try and never try to do something during lovemaking that you know will make your partner feel incredibly uncomfortable.
- Explore & experiment – It is crucial that you have an open mind when in a sexual relationship and just don’t close off any chance to try something new just because you haven’t tried it before. If your partner wants to introduce some sex toys into the bedroom just don’t dismiss this idea out of hand and at least promise to try something new and then see how you feel afterwards. It might be something that changes the whole relationship around and brings both of you much closer together.
A healthy and long sexual relationship is going to take a lot of effort on your part and you need to always pay attention to your partner. Don’t be afraid to ask them if the lovemaking has become somewhat predictable and ask them what it is that you can do to make it more exciting. It is important that both people feel satisfied with any sexual experience and try to maintain strong emotional connections which will lead to more intimacy and a much stronger relationship now and always.